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Life has felt really full lately. Between packing for a big move, being present for my little one, working full time, and juggling all the everyday responsibilities, I’ve felt stretched thin. I’ll be honest—I’ve had a few tears these last couple of days. There are so many decisions to make, so many things pulling at my attention, and at times it’s felt overwhelming.
But here’s the thing I’m learning: those feelings aren’t a sign of weakness. They’re a sign that I care deeply, that I’m carrying a lot, and that I’m ready for gentleness in my own life. So this season, I’m being intentional about creating space for myself—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Because as single mamas, we deserve to breathe, too.
1. Curating Physical Space
Our surroundings shape our energy. In the middle of moving chaos, I’ve been trying to pack intentionally and carve out small pockets of beauty—a spritz of perfume, a soft throw blanket, a tidy little nook. Even a tiny corner that feels peaceful can remind me that my home is my sanctuary, even when life feels hectic.
2. Protecting Mental Space
Motherhood comes with a lot of noise—literal and figurative. This season, I’m setting boundaries to protect my mind. Sometimes that looks like putting my phone on Do Not Disturb, saying no to commitments that don’t align with my peace (a frequent battle), or listening to music to calm my mind. These aren’t “luxuries”; they’re how I show up as a calmer, more present version of myself. I’m even on the hunt for a therapist. More on that later.
3. Creating Time Space
Time for myself used to feel indulgent, but now I see it as essential. Whether it’s 20 minutes to read in peace, taking a nap, or going for a solo walk, I’m scheduling these pauses just like any other important commitment. Because I deserve to be on my own calendar. And another thing we have to remember mamas; lean on your support system. As I’m writing this, my favorite cousin, who has so lovingly decided to take up space with me and provide some much-needed adult interaction, is out at the grocery store with the little one. You know what that means…? Time space created. Ahhh, breathe it in.
If you’re feeling stretched thin or on the verge of tears yourself, let this be your reminder: you don’t have to do it all at once. You’re allowed to slow down, to cry, to pause, and to create space for your own heart to rest. The soft life isn’t about perfection or luxury; it’s about giving yourself permission to feel safe, supported, and cared for—especially by yourself.
We deserve this softness, mama. One deep breath, one cozy corner, one small act of love at a time. 💛
