We are rewriting the narrative.

We’re no longer choosing struggle as a badge of honor. We’re choosing softness – on our terms. As single mamas, we carry so much – but here, we lay down the heaviness and pick up peace, pleasure, purpose.

Soft doesn’t mean weak.

It means wise enough to rest. Strong enough to rest. Strong enough set boundaries. Whole enough to make room for joy. And bold enough to build beautiful lives for ourselves and our babies.

At Soft Life Single Mama, we believe in:

Living gently, even when life feels hard

Creating cozy homes, abundant mindsets, and nurturing routines

Taking care of ourselves without guilt.

Showing up as both mama and woman – fully, freely, and unapologetically

This is your space to grow, glow, and be reminded:

You deserve softness. You deserve joy. You deserve a life that feels like love – not just labor.

Welcome home sis,

Lets build your soft life, one moment at a time.

About Me

Hey boo! I’m so glad you’re here.

I’m Ashley – founder of Soft Life Single Mama, full time working mama, creative soul, soft life seeker, and proud girl mom. Isn’t she adorable?

This space was born from my own journey – juggling motherhood, healing, working hard, and learning how to care for myself along the way. I spent years in survival mode. always doing for everyone else, until I realized: I deserve more than just making it. I deserve to feel held, happy, and whole.

Now, I’m creating a life where I can slow down, be present, and enjoy the beauty around me – and I want that for you too.

Here you’ll find:

Encouragement for your mama heart
Soft life rituals & routines
Budget – friendly tools to help you thrive
Real talk about motherhood, money, healing. and home


You’ll also see little glimpses of my world – including my daughter, who’s my why, my joy, and my biggest motivation.

Whether you’re here to get inspire, find community, or start creating your own soft life – know this:

You’re not alone, and you’re so worthy of ease, joy, and abundance.

Let’s grow together.